What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:38
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4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Why do some women squirt and some don't?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
According to Trump, Ukraine started the war. Why?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
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66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
My boyfriend won’t tell me his past and it hurts me so I broke up with him what do I do?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Who is the most trusted person in your life, and do they have the same trust on you?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
It has been said that people with ADHD can often hyperfocus. Can that be an advantage?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
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7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
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31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Please share Did you stop?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
52~ What are your hobbies?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Any that are a turn off?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
How old are you? Male or Female?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Nothing too Serious
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
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45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
*** Random Questions ***
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
If you win, what will you make them do?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Would you read them together?
39~ What are your love languages?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
What is your favorite position? Why?
If yes, what?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Do you think this brought you closer together?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
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